While a lot of people use that example to prove how uncontrollably promiscuous gay men are, viewing gay men as men reveals deep aspects of men's sexuality that we can't see
in heterosexual relationships by definition.
Arbus once said, "Lately I've been struck with how I really love what you can't see
in a photograph.
Since our eyes can't see
mirror photons, however, all of this would remain invisible.
For years band members refused to play live ("I can't see
the point, really," Tennant had said), and they dismissed their 1987 ballad "Rent" as a "mercenary love song.
If they couldn't see it, then they can't see
the numbers on their checks either.